I'm a new mom. My daughter was born in early March of this year, and I've been enjoying every minute of mom-dom. There's a few things that are new, there are a few things that are unexpected, but a lot of things are the same as it was in my pre-kid life too.
New:
It seems to take 10 times longer to do anything these days. Just getting out of the house I have to budget an additional 15 minutes to check the diaper bag and pack the car.
Unexpected:
Incredible and overwhelming love for this tiny human.
Same:
Our early to bed and early to rise lifestyle is even more practical now than it ever was pre-kids.
The other day my friend asked what would be a good gift for a new mother. I have looked back at all of the wonderful things people gifted our family in the past months, and I really could not have gotten through without the following...
An abundance of baby-sized blankets.
Receiving blankets are wonderful multi-purpose devices that wash up easily and can take a beating, but it's also incredibly handy to have a stash of hand-knit baby blankets, quilts, fleece, etc. Anything that can be machine-washed has been well-used.
Wash cloths.
Babies are entropy in action. My professor friend gave me two huge stacks of white washcloths when I had my baby, and just said that I should trust him that they will come in handy. They do. We go through about a dozen wash cloths a day for various reasons, everything from catching dribbles of milk to bathtime. We have a few stacks of wash cloths stashed around our apartment for those "Ack! Mess!" moments. There's always one or five within arm's reach.
Snuggle nest.
My next-door neighbor whose kids I used to babysit gave us this portable bassinet. It makes any environment immediately comfortable and soothing for our little human. Maybe it is the built-in white noise machine, but it doesn't take long for those little eyes to droop when she is comfortably situated in her snuggle nest. At nearly 5 months she is now growing out of it, but I can't imagine the first few months without that packable sleep nook.
Portable diaper changing station.
It's a purse, it's a mat, it's friggen amazing! From an engineer mom friend, this incredibly practical tool makes changing diapers comfortable anywhere. With pockets to hold everything from diapers and wipes to cream and spare clothes, this little portable mat goes with me everywhere. There have been a number of times when there wasn't a convenient place to change my baby, but this device makes even the most undesirable environment practical.
Lap pads.
Some babies make tiny little messes. My child is not one of them. She tends to explode one to several times a day. For such disasters, I am happy that I have super-absorbent and durable lap pads. I put them under her when I know the rumble is coming.
Mei Tai.
My child likes to be in the center of the action, but she also wants to be held. Cooking, cleaning, walking around the grocery store, watching other children play at the park, wherever we go this device makes it so incredibly easy to keep my fussy babe content.
Clothes.
Between gifts and hand-me-downs, my daughter has a complete wardrobe for each stage of development. When she hits a growth spurt, all I need to do is pull out the next box and I can switch out her entire closet in a matter of minutes. I can't even begin to explain what a relief it is to not have to shop every time she grows out of an outfit.
Those are all wonderful things to make life easier with a baby, but there are a few little just-for-mom things that have made life so much more enjoyable:
Slip-on- Shoes.
Classy yet comfortable flats have never been so appreciated. I don't have those extra three seconds to tie my shoes before running out the door, and if I don't have to bend down while holding a child, all the better!
Easy-care Haircut.
The stylist knew just what I needed when I told them I have a new baby. Not only is there zero maintenance required for this haircut, little fingers can no longer yank away.
Lip Balm.
Maybe it's all those baby kisses, or maybe I'm just dehydrated from lactating, but these days I always seem to have dry lips. Lip balm works wonders.
Aromatherapy Bath Stuffs.
When I need to get three days' worth of spit-up, excrement, milk, and who-knows-what off my body in a manner of seconds, it makes a huge difference to have pretty-smelling, quality bath products on hand.
When it comes to making the first few months of motherhood enjoyable, these few items have made all the difference.